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Alchemize The Holidays: Freedom From Family Expectations


FREEDOM FROM FAMILY EXPECTATIONS AND ROLES BY ALCHEMIZE™

  • Do you dread the holidays or family gatherings?

  • Do you ever find yourself engulfed by other people’s energy?

  • Do you sacrifice your needs to take care of others in your family? 

  • Do you get swept away by your family’s drama or find yourself falling back into old roles or patterns around your family?

  • Do you feel compelled to save your family from their emotions even though you hate doing so?

  • Do you feel burdened by your family’s expectations and obligated to fulfill them?

  • Do you feel guilty about living your own life?

  • Do you feel your family doesn’t understand you or expects you to live out their expectations?

  • Do you find you lose yourself around your family, perhaps feeling shy or unable to speak?

THESE ARE ALL COMMON ISSUES THAT MAY BE RELATED TO YOUR FAMILY PROGRAMMING.

Most of our beliefs and patterns originate from our families. Our early experiences with them shape how we see the world, how we relate to ourselves, and how we are in relationships. 

Most families have expectations about how we should be or act. They may have traditions they expect us to follow or beliefs they expect us to hold. Maybe we always have to do dinner at our parents' house or gifts have to be exchanged at a sibling's holiday party.

When we visit our families, we often find ourselves reverting into old roles. We may regress into a younger place and our child parts may become dominant. This may show up as us adopting old behaviours like complying, going along with what other people want, or not speaking up.

If we’ve been conditioned to believe that our families come first or are right, it can prevent us from living the life we really want. Our families can put a lot of pressure or guilt on us to do things the way they want or the way they've always been done. If we do try to break away to pursue our own wants or needs, we can feel guilt or shame.

Our family roles can also play a big part in our adult relationships and financial success because we carry those roles out into the world. For example, those who play the caretaker often find themselves caretaking in relationships or in codependent relationships.

If we don’t resolve these roles, we may act them out with other people, perhaps with our inlaws or even coworkers. In fact, many of the things showing up in our lives now, including weak or non-existent boundaries, unhealthy relationships, pain, financial struggles, or the need to take care of our family financially, are rooted in our family upbringing.  

WHEN YOU FREE YOURSELF FROM FAMILY EXPECTATIONS AND ROLES, EVERYTHING CAN CHANGE.

JOIN ME FOR FREEDOM FROM FAMILY EXPECTATIONS AND ROLES BY ALCHEMIZE

This Alchemize™ course is designed to remove blocks related to family roles and expectations and let you enjoy the freedom and joy of being your unique self. This class will help you:

  1. Release the limitations you adopted from your family

  2. Remove the identities you took on to fit in or that were handed down to you

  3. Dissolve all emotional pain that has resulted from these experiences

  4. Free yourself from any limiting family roles or limiting money beliefs

  5. Heal all trauma associated with experiences of manipulation and control

  6. Free you from victim consciousness

  7. Resolve the need to mirror or mimic your family’s limitations

  8. Let go of family burdens

  9. Clear curses and spells that keep you tied to family drama and imprisoned by family conditioning

This is a fully-facilitated class during which you can expect to experience powerful transformations from the moment you arrive. It will help you release the blocks your family’s dynamics may have built-in your life, preventing you from: 

  1. Fully embracing your true self

  2. Experiencing healthy, fulfilling relationships

  3. Attracting more wealth and prosperity

  4. Being able to confidently express yourself

  5. Understanding the difference between your beliefs and that of your family’s

  6. Being able to pave your own pathway through life