Our relationship with our mother is fundamental to our development and survival, but many of us struggle with holding onto our mother's trauma. Consider if you ever:
Find it hard to differentiate between your thoughts, feelings, and energies and those of your mother.
Feel your mother’s pain and trauma.
Confuse yourself with your mother.
Get lost in your mother’s emotional world.
Feel confused about who you are.
Feel anxious or compulsively worry about your mother.
Compulsively fear your mother dying.
Easily become attached and co-dependent.
Fear abandonment.
These are all common signs of us being tangled up with our mother's trauma.
As children, we need our parents or parental figures to survive. We are hardwired for connection and love and we need to be seen—especially by our mother.
In an ideal scenario, our mother would be in tune with us. She would see and love us for who we truly are and encourage our unique self-development.
Unfortunately, a lot of us did not have this. Many of us grew up with mothers who were traumatized at some point in our lives. They may have experienced an accident, been abused or neglected, lost a child, or been through a war. They may have become cold or abusive themselves in response to their trauma and were unwilling or unable to fully love or see us.
The pain of not feeling loved is traumatic, deep, and often unbearable. We often idealize our parents in childhood and blame ourselves for not being seen or loved. In order for us to survive, we often separate from our own trauma, distress, pain, and despair and absorb our mother’s energy and trauma. We may also mimic and take on her survival strategies.
When we take on the emotions and identity of our mother, our true self gets hidden and our bond with our mother becomes entangled.
Not knowing the difference between our own selves and the identity of our mothers causes a deep wound. When we are disconnected from our true selves, we can experience:
Depression
Addiction
Pain
Suffering
In order to heal and be truly happy, we need to break this bond with our mothers and become connected with our true selves.
Disentangling from your mother's trauma is the focus of this month’s Inner Child Club energy clearing. I will teach you how to break the trauma bond with your mother and connect with your true self so you can gain:
The happiness of knowing who you truly are.
The freedom to be yourself.
Healing on your traumas and the traumas you carry from your mother.
Stronger boundaries.
The ability to recognize your own value and worth.
Join me on February 17, 2022, at 8 pm London to learn how to disentangle from your mother's trauma and live from a space of joy.
During this month’s energy clearing, we will:
Work with Divine Source Energy to resolve all past traumas that contributed to your mother's wound.
Upgrade your energy so it can separate your thoughts, feelings, and emotions from those of your mother.
Disentangle you from your mother’s trauma.
Release the beliefs and patterns that keep you in a toxic relationship with your mother.
Boost your self-worth and mental and emotional strength.
Conduct an energy clearing to help you release and resolve the past so you can finally move forward.