Do you find yourself enabling other people’s self-destructive tendencies?
Do you feel like your world revolves around another person or other people?
Do you feel like your value or worth is dependent upon other people’s approval?
Do you feel so invested in someone else that you can’t function independently?
Do you find your life is centered around meeting other people’s needs?
Have you lost touch with what you need?
These are all characteristics associated with codependency.
Codependency can be a learned behavior that is handed down generation after generation. We learn by what we see and based on what goes on around us. People who have codependent tendencies often observed codependent behaviors in one or both of their parents.
Codependency can also be born out of a need to survive. If we didn’t feel safe or secure in childhood, we may have attempted to meet the needs of our parents. Usually, we do this unconsciously or automatically.
Regardless of where we learned our codependent behaviors, the root of them is often based in the idea that our world needs to be centered around meeting the needs of other people. We aren’t attuned to our own wants and needs.
Codependent behaviors we learned in childhood often play out in our adult relationships, resulting in a new cycle of focusing on our partners or friends and ignoring our own needs and desires.
The key to healing from co-dependent tendencies is to heal our inner child by accessing and releasing old beliefs and traumas.
Our inner child is an energetic and emotional aspect of us. It can get energetically stuck at a younger time so it may be living at the age of five or seven. Children at these ages don’t know how to take care of their emotional and physical needs. The younger we are, the more vulnerable we are and the more reliant we are on our parents. If we don't feel safe with our parents or they have expectations about us meeting their needs, we will do everything we can for them so they will take care of us. Our younger parts may still be functioning from this space and feel afraid or incapable of taking care of ourselves. This is what drives our codependent behaviours.
Healing from codependency is the focus of this month’s Inner Child Club energy clearing. This month, I will teach you how to connect with your inner child so you can gain:
Lightness and a feeling of freedom
The ability to recognize your own value and worth
Healing on your inner child’s unresolved traumas
Healthier relationships
The happiness that comes from truly being yourself
Stronger boundaries
Join me on February 2nd, from 8pm London to learn how to heal your inner child and live from a space of joy. During this month’s energy clearing we will:
Work with Divine Source Energy to resolve all past traumas that contributed to your codependent behavior.
Upgrade your energy so it can recognize that you are an adult and that you don’t need to be codependent.
Release the beliefs and patterns that keep you stuck in codependent relationships.
Boost your self-worth and mental and emotional strength.
Conduct an energy clearing to help you release and resolve the past so you can finally move forward.